A Champagne-and-Blush Color Palette Set the Tone for This "Rustic Glam" Wedding in Vallejo, California

Sparkle and Shine

The couple printed their own invites using Minted, choosing a design with shimmering metallic accents to provide a first glimpse of "the glam, with lots of sparkle and gold," that Doshia wanted in the décor scheme.

Her sparkling wedding jewelry tied into the look, too. "I did not want a cookie-cutter ring," says Doshia. "I wanted something vintage, but with some glam." The couple began shopping together a year before the proposal so Tash could get a few ideas; she decided on a Verragio ring in rose gold. Doshia chose a diamond wedding band to complement her engagement ring; both chose matching tungsten rose gold bands.

Love at First Sight

Doshia found her fit-and-flare Allure wedding dress at the first bridal store she visited after trying on fewer than 10 options. "I stepped into it and after one look in the mirror, I just knew," she says. "The lace, the sparkle, the way the dress accentuated my curves, the silk champagne underlay, the long train with silk buttons that went from the back down to the end of the train—I was in love."

She added a little extra glitz with embellished peep toe heels from Badgley Mischka and a cathedral-length veil (which she removed before walking down the aisle).

Well Suited

Tash chose a light navy-blue suit and a white shirt from Men's Wearhouse, accessorizing with Magnanni shoes and a polka-dot tie from Nordstrom. Her gold tie bar, diamond stud earrings, and rose gold Daniel Wellington watch added subtle sparkle.

Blooming Beauty

Doshia's bouquet from Sweetness & Light Floral Design included lush pink and white flowers tightly arranged in a traditional round shape. "Rustic summer blooms like cosmos and cafe au lait dahlias were balanced with romantic full blooms of roses and peonies," says the bride.

Look of Love

Tash and Doshia saw each other before the wedding as they posed for portraits on The Lighthouse property. "As I walked up to Tash, I felt so many emotions—happy, excited, and relief that the day had finally come and I was going to marry my forever love," says Doshia. "Also, I couldn't get over how amazing she looked!"

Under the Arch

The outdoor ceremony took place in front of a custom wooden frame, accented with pretty floral arrangements in shades of pink, white, and green. "My favorite flowers were those on our wedding arch, which also had the most beautiful ivory draping," explains Doshia.

Flower Power

Tash and Doshia chose foliage accents with longer leaves that added movement to their arrangements. "While envisioning our palette for the wedding," they say, "we used a garden-style approach to enhance the rustic glam vibe we were creating."

Eyes on Each Other

Doshia walked down the aisle solo to "Make Me Whole" by Ariel Lemeux—one of the day's high points for Tash. "After I reached my destination under our beautiful arch, and my beautiful wife stepped out of the lighthouse on the second floor to reveal to everyone her gorgeous dress," says Tash, "I remember thinking to myself, 'Wow, this is finally happening—I'm about to marry my best friend.' As she walked down the steps and closer to me, I remember following her with my eyes full of pure admiration, joy, love, and gratitude. She looked absolutely beautiful."

A Family Affair

Doshia's brother Cheron stepped in to officiate the ceremony—a family affair that included a poem read by one of Tash's cousins and a prayer led by Doshia's mom. "We wanted our ceremony to be meaningful and heartfelt," says the couple.

With This Ring

The duo exchanged rings after delivering personalized vows. "We wrote our own vows, which were the perfect mix of humor and love," says the couple. "For a lot of our family and friends, ours was their first same-sex wedding, and we wanted to showcase that our wedding is just like any other hetero wedding. Love is love."

Ready to Party

The happy couple exited the ceremony to "I Want You" by Luke James and led guests to a cocktail hour on the deck next to the ceremony lawn. Bartenders from Pour Girl Bartending served up two signature drinks—Hennessey Lemon Drops and Strawberry Mules—while DJ Beat Thoz lined up a collection of classic and current R&B favorites.

Game Theory

Along with a cocktail hour photo booth set up with a background view of the waterfront, the couple also offered lawn games for guests to enjoy. "We put personal touches throughout the evening," says the couple—like bringing in a cornhole set with a Golden State Warriors design as a nod to their love of the team.

Table Talk

In lieu of escort cards, the couple printed their table assignments on blush-colored paper and displayed each card on wooden easels. The distressed wood, delicate metalwork, and elegant script continued the rustic glam décor scheme.

Meal with a View

Tash and Doshia took full advantage of The Lighthouse for their reception, serving dinner on the main lawn and moving their guests inside for dancing. Round tables dressed in champagne-colored linens contrasted with darker wooden chairs, while the mountains and marina created a stunning backdrop.

A Sunny Accent

Low centerpieces in shimmering gold vessels relied on the same color scheme as the ceremony flowers. "Seasonal textural elements and the cool-toned greens of eucalyptus rounded out all of our arrangements," says the couple. "Our florist suggested we add just a hint of yellow to really add a charge of energy to the flowers, and create a beautiful and joyful moment for our guests to enjoy.

Cheers!

For dinner, Checkers Catering served an "elevated BBQ menu" that the couple chose in honor of the fundraiser that kicked off their relationship. An on-site grill and cast iron skillets gave the buffet a homey feel, while the menu of grilled skirt steak, barbecue chicken, roasted potatoes, honey cornbread, and vegetables with balsamic drizzle gave guests plenty of options.

Just Desserts

Tash and Doshia offered a dessert table stocked with cupcakes in three flavors—red velvet, key lime cream pie, and chocolate—plus chocolate-covered strawberries and chocolate chip cookies. They also cut a semi-naked lemon cream pie cake decorated with cut flowers from Cupcakin' Bake Shop.

On the Dance Floor

After sharing their first dance to "Why I Love You" by Major, Tash and Doshia started the evening with a high-energy tune: "After our song finished playing, we went into a quick dance break to the chorus of 'That's My Best Friend' by Tokyo Vanity," says the couple.

Doshia later traded her ceremony gown for a strapless ivory jumpsuit from Express comfortable for a night of dancing. "I blinged it out with a jeweled waist belt and sparkling Kate Spade tennis shoes," she says. As the dancing continued, a French fry bar offered guests a chance to refuel with a late-night snack.

Sources

Photography, Tyrenda Pentecost

Location, The Lighthouse

Event planning, A Monique Affair

Catering, Checkers Catering

Flowers, Sweetness & Light Floral Design

Stationery, Minted

Cake,Cupcakin' Bake Shop

Music,DJ Beat Thoz

Rentals, Standard Party Rentals

Bridal gown, Allure

Doshia's shoes, Badgley Mischka

Hair,Brittany Pless

Makeup, Tremiyya Bumpus

Bridesmaids' dresses, Weddington Way

Wedding suit,Men's Wearhouse

Tash's accessories, Nordstrom tie; Magnanni shoes; Daniel Wellington watch

Bartending, Pour Girl Bartending

Engagement Ring, Verragio