A Black-Tie Beachfront Wedding on Martha's Vineyard

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bride and groom standing outside on stone pathway for portrait — Kristina Adams

Jillian, who grew up in Wisconsin, and Sebastian, from Sweden, might never have met if they hadn't signed up for the same class at Columbia Law School in 2011. "It was a small seminar on the architecture of the United States' financial regulation—maybe having to sit through three hours on that topic every week would make you fall in love with anyone?" jokes the couple. "Well, it worked!" Four years later, on the night they moved into the apartment they'd just purchased together, Sebastian dropped a diamond engagement ring into Jillian's glass of Champagne and, she says, "gave me until I had finished the glass to decide."

Over the next 12 months, they planned a week-long wedding celebration for August 27, 2016, on Martha's Vineyard, where Jillian's family has a summer home. Nearly 250 guests, including many of Sebastian's friends and family from Europe, joined the couple for a ceremony, dinner, and dancing on the beach. "We set the bar high and tried to get a rustic but polished Nordic-New England feel," says the couple. "We wanted to take into account our natural surroundings, while dancing the night away in black tie."

A minimalist color palette of white, green, and pale gray let the scenery at Allen Farm shine, while thoughtful touches—like parasols and hats for guests at the sunny ceremony, zucchini bread favors intended for breakfast the morning after, and welcome bags with the couple's favorite snacks—gave the large wedding an intimate atmosphere. "We were two Type A control freaks trying to pull off a perfectly choreographed event with the most eclectic, unpredictable mix of guests imaginable," says the couple. "But the guests made it special. We had a large European contingent that came to Martha's Vineyard for the first time, and they were welcomed with open arms by a big group of people who had summered there for decades."

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Going Green

white and dark green wedding stationary suite — Kristina Adams

Jillian and Sebastian chose a paper suite from Regas in a palette of crisp white with deep green accents, mixing a calligraphy-inspired script with a traditional all-caps font for a look that was both summery and elegant. "To this day, I am still obsessed with our paper products," says Jillian. "I don't think they could have been any better."

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Sweet Stuff

wedding weekend itinerary — Kristina Adams

The couple treated their guests to carefully curated welcome baskets that included bottled water and Champagne alongside the couple's favorite treats: granola bars from local standard The Black Dog; Burke chocolates from Jillian's home state of Wisconsin; and Sockerbit Swedish candies in honor of Sebastian's background.

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Her Couture Gown

custom designed Guillermo Couture off-the-shoulder lace wedding dress — Kristina Adams

Jillian had a clear vision for her wedding dress: "Simple silhouette, off-the-shoulder, only of lace, very soft, and swished when I walked," she says. She and her mother tried five different boutiques looking for a match, but came up empty-handed. "I never got that feeling you see in the movies where you feel you're trying on your dress," says Jillian. "I didn't even get close to that feeling." She turned to Guillermo Couture

who created her dream gown from scratch. "He sourced the lace for my dress and we had many, many fittings," says Jillian. "In the end, the dress was perfect."

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Fresh and Floral

simple white and green floral and greenery wedding bouquet — Kristina Adams

Jillian returned to the white-and-green color palette of the invitations for her bouquet by Tea Lane Farm, adding a burst of bright, fresh color to the neutral grays and ivories used elsewhere in the color scheme.

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Gray Matters

bride and groom with groomsmen wearing black tuxedos and bridesmaids wearing dove-gray chiffon gowns — Kristina Adams

Sebastian and his groomsmen wore classic black tuxedos; the groom sourced his from Paul Stuart and accessories from Sid Mashburn. Jillian's five bridesmaids dazzled in dove-gray chiffon gowns from Amsale.

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A Family Portrait

bride and groom with parents posing for portrait — Kristina Adams

The picturesque fences, emerald green grass, and bright leaves of Martha's Vineyard in summer created a lush background for family photos, which were taken before both of Jillian's parents escorted her down the aisle.

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On the Waterfront

floral arch and wooden benches on beach front wedding ceremony venue — Kristina Adams

Jillian and Sebastian chose a beachfront location for their ceremony; rustic wooden benches and leafy ferns created a wide aisle overlooking the water. A majestic floral arch dressed up the open-air spot, while a chalkboard invited guests to "pick a seat, not a side."

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Sun Shades

guests holding panama hats and parasols — Kristina Adams

As experts on Martha's Vineyard's August weather, Jillian and Sebastian knew their guests might need a little shade—so they offered panama hats and parasols to their friends and family before the ceremony.

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A Meaningful Ceremony

bride and groom next to floral arch outside during wedding ceremony — Kristina Adams

The couple asked their friend, civil rights activist Vernon E. Jordan, Jr., to officiate their marriage. "The ceremony itself was one of the last things we worried about," says the couple. "We let Vernon put his sermon together without any supervision. He absolutely blew us away." Though Jordan received a one-day dispensation from Massachusetts to perform the ceremony, it was still considered non-religious—"technically not religious," says the couple. "We had asked him to give it all the gravitas of a religious ceremony which he did—and then some."

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Happily Married

guests shower newlyweds with white petals during recessional — Kristina Adams

After the ceremony, guests showered the newlyweds with white petals as Jillian and Sebastian left as husband and wife. They chose a Swedish Baroque tune by J.H. Roman for their recessional.

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Ready to Party

cocktail hour under white tents — Kristina Adams

Guests moved to designated tents by the water for cocktails and small bites, including oysters, Swedish seafood, cheese, and Champagne. The scenery and socializing were so enjoyable, says the couple, "it was nearly impossible to get people to leave—it made everything subsequent about an hour late!"

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Cheers!

wooden framed chalkboard cocktail hour sign — Kristina Adams

Chalkboards in polished wooden frames displayed the couple's hashtag, #jillastian, alongside sketches and ingredient lists for their two custom cocktails: the "Drag Along," a blend of Prosecco, elderflower, and mint; and the "Tag Along," a mix of vodka, ginger beer, lime, and lavender.

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Walking and Talking

guests walk outside from cocktail hour to reception tent — Kristina Adams

The social atmosphere of the wedding continued as guests moved from the cocktail area to the reception tent, a short walk that—like the rest of the week—encouraged the couple's friends and family to get to know each other. "We still get messages from guests asking for email addresses to reconnect with people from the other side of the pond they met during our wedding week," says the couple.

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White Night

hanging paper lanterns over long reception tables — Kristina Adams

A large tent left plenty of space for dinner and dancing, while hanging paper lanterns lit the festivities after sunset. Wooden cross-back chairs contrasted with clean white cushions and linens. "We wanted everything to feel as natural as possible," says the couple, "rustic, but polished."

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A Bounty of Blooms

gray table runners under short vases, taper candles and votives — Kristina Adams

Pale gray runners spanned the lengths of the tables, offering a subtle way to offset the centerpieces: collections of arrangements in small vessels and bud vases, interspersed with white taper candles and low votives.

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On the Menu

custom wedding reception menus — Kristina Adams

Guests had their choice of four entrées—including fluke, rack of lamb, and filet mignon—and custom menus at each place setting included their selection. "The dinner itself was inspired by and created with as much local food as possible—tomatoes from Morning Glory Farm, greens from North Tabor, local fluke," says the couple. For dessert, they served a cake from their favorite New York City spot, Momofuku Milk Bar.

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For the Morning After

white box with forest green ribbon and tag — Kristina Adams

Each guest received a boxed piece of zucchini bread for breakfast the next morning, wrapped in the couple's signature green grosgrain ribbon, with a tag featuring two sheep—a nod to the wedding's location—on one side and an illustration reading "Leaving Martha's Vineyard" on the other. "We just tried to think of everything," says the couple.

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Romance on the Dance Floor

bride and groom share first dance surrounded by guests under hanging lanterns — Kristina Adams

For their first dance as husband and wife, Jillian and Sebastian chose "Begin the Beguine," played by their band, The Sultans

, in an "uptempo, big band style," they say. "We wanted something old-school and romantic." After the reception ended, the couple continued celebrating with their guests at Jillian's family home nearby.

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