When it comes to the most special and important day of your life, it's hard to not get at least a little worked up over the little details. However, it's important to realize which factors are in—and out of—your control. One that you can't predict or change, no matter how hard you try, is the weather. "While it can be a hassle if you are caught in a sudden downpour on the way to your ceremony, or if a freak snowstorm blows in the weekend of your wedding, it doesn't have to ruin your wedding," says Kimberly Lehman, wedding and event planner at Love, Laughter & Elegance.
She does recommend, however, that all couples have a backup plan in place for your wedding, especially if any part of your celebration will take place outdoors. To help you cope with the unpredictability that comes along with wedding weather, here are some key reasons why it's not worth stressing over.
You can't control it.
To really enjoy the wedding day to the fullest, Leah Weinberg, wedding planner, owner, and executive planner at Color Pop Events, urges brides and grooms to accept that certain things will happen that day that are outside of their control. "When those things happen, you've just gotta roll with it," she says. "Embrace whatever happens and make the best of it—that advice goes for things other than weather, too."
Stress might kill the mood.
Not only is stress bad for your own health, but it can impact the moods of those around you. "If you find yourself snapping at others due to the weather, it could potentially cause more permanent damage," says Sabrina Zeile of Weddings By Sabrina. "Even though it's your special day, it's important to be considerate of others." If the weather is poor, she suggests shifting your focus to another aspect of the wedding like dancing.
Inclement weather might enhance your photos.
Believe it or not, but rain can make for incredibly romantic photos with ideal lighting, so embrace it! "I've seen some stellar photos taken on rainy days, so if you're bummed about the rain, just flip your mindset and think of all of the cool images that are going to come out of it," says Weinberg.
Your wedding day will fly by.
What's the use in spending the majority of it worried and stressed? It's important to remember that this day will happen rain or shine, and it will fly by. Instead of spending this precious time stressed out, which can cause negative effects such as headaches, fatigue, upset stomach, and muscle pain, Zeile suggests relaxing and re-focusing so you can enjoy the moments you do have while they're happening.