This Couple's Dreamy Italian Destination Wedding Could Have Been from a Fairy Tale

Ringing True

"I had no idea what I was doing," says Greg of the process of finding an engagement ring. Luckily, years earlier Lisa had emailed a picture of a ring she loved to a friend, who said she'd hold onto it for when the time came. Greg then had the white-knuckle experience of flying to Italy with the ring—unbeknownst to Lisa, who was traveling with him—so that he could propose. "I wrapped it in a note for security, in case they came across it, that said, 'Please, no matter what, don't open this' [in front of Lisa]. Then I had to play it cool for three hours while I was driving us to Florence, and we randomly started talking about rings because our friend had just gotten engaged. I thought, this could only happen to me."

You're Invited

Invitations took the form of personalized letters, hand-calligraphed and letterpressed on tea-stained paper by Written Word Calligraphy and Design. A watercolor of the villa lined the envelopes.

Welcome to Ravello

"For our rehearsal dinner, my mother-in-law had little tiles made—this is another thing Ravello is known for—with everyone's names on them, to use as placecards," says Lisa. The bags were for taking goodies home.

Ready for Italy

In place of a save-the-date card, Lisa and Greg sent their full invitation packet six months in advance, which gave their guests time to plan their trips. Included was a booklet that included an itinerary of events, hotel options, and wedding and travel information. "They looked like government documents from Italy in the 1800s," says Greg.

So Fashionable

"It was important to not do a first look, so we'd see each other for the first time at the church," says Lisa of her wedding to Greg. The groom, in a tux from Knot Standard, and bride, in Alon Livné from Mark Ingram Atelier, posed postceremony at their reception site—Villa Cimbrone, a public garden with spectacular views of the mountains and sea.

Greg had his favorite love poem written by Petrarch, a 14th-century Italian poet; stitched into the lining of his jacket.

Getting Ready

Lisa gifted her two sisters (and herself!) lemon robes and floral rompers. "Also tassel earrings," she says, "although not to be worn on the wedding day. Just for them." In their hotel rooms, guests found a welcome present of local beer, a vintage postcard that said Benvenuti, and a paperback "hand gesture dictionary."

A Beautiful Bouquet

"I asked for a dramatic, drippy-to-the-floor bouquet, in a soft palette with olive branches woven in, so it would look vintage," says Lisa of her flowers by Saipua.

Pretty in Pinks

Lisa's bridesmaids were her sisters (and sisters-in-law, not shown here), cousins, and longtime friends.

It's in the Bag

Lisa gave her 'maids monogrammed acrylic handbags by Gifted Boutique.

Tying the Knot

The couple had a traditional Catholic ceremony with an English-speaking priest, but wrote their own vows, which each kept secret from the other.

"I had written a line in my vows about Lisa's grandmother, who wasn't able to make it to Italy for the wedding," says Greg. "We ended up having to cut our honeymoon short because she died unexpectedly. I'm glad we memorialized her in that way. She was a huge influence on our lives, and I had been around Lisa's family for so long, she was my grandmother, too."

Showered with Love

"I wanted everyone to throw pastina as we were coming out of the church," says Lisa. "The wedding planner said we were going to get starch all over the men's suits, but it worked out great."

Walking Through Town

The Neapolitan Claudio Band accompanied the walk from church to reception, wearing matching red suede loafers for the occasion.

Time to Celebrate

Afterward, guests explored the grounds of Villa Cimbrone, prosecco in hand, then moved to the main lawn for cocktail hour, with hors d'oeuvres such as little pizzas, eggshells stuffed with bites of carbonara, and tiny saltimbocca sandwiches.

Beautiful Bites

Guests enjoyed small bites, like this salmon mousse crostino topped with caviar. "When I went to choose the menu, they had samples of 20 hors d'oeuvres and 3 stations," says Lisa. "I said, 'How many do I choose?' They said, 'We will prepare all of them.' I couldn't believe it. This place has a Michelin star! It was incredible."

A Sip and a Seat

"The first thing guests did was pick up their seating assignment—which left them with a glass for prosecco," Lisa says. The couple's wedding planner from the Italian firm SposiamoVi, connected Lisa with a local calligrapher, Laura Mazzetti from The Wedding Letters, to write out the seating assignment flags, along with the church programs and the personalized menu cards.

Old-World Charm

Dinner was held beneath the villa's Gothic stone archways. The wedding party sat at a single long table (with round tables for the other guests). Brass candlesticks and greenery decorated the space.

Table It

"The thing I loved about the dinner," says Lisa, "was that it wasn't shoehorned between toasts and dancing. We went to a separate location—the crypt—and it was a calm, classy part of the evening, like a dinner party. Everyone sat together and had a beautiful four-course meal. Then, afterwards, we went to another spot for the dancing, and that was pure fun—no flowers, just disco balls everywhere. I couldn't have ever known how magical it would all be."

Made with Love

Ravello is known for handmade custom sandals, so the couple had artisans at the reception make them for guests.

The Views

Villa Cimbrone is a provincial park, open to the public every day, showing off its stunning views of the Mediterranean Sea. "It's wonder after wonder," says Greg. "The gardens are so beautifully maintained, there are all these sculptures, the view—everyone's mouth was agape the entire time. I was floored. I could not believe what I was looking at."

Happy Faces

College friends joined the revelry.

The Wedding Cake

The traditional Italian wedding cake was one huge tier with wild strawberries and whipped cream.

With This Kiss

The couple shared a quiet moment while enjoying the breathtaking vista. "I was able to really experience it as it was happening and cherish it," says Greg, remembering the details of his wedding day. "It was too wild not to. It was one of the most remarkable things I've been part of."

Bouquet Remastered

Lisa's wedding bouquet marked the getaway car for the bride and groom on their way out of the city.

Sources

Ceremony location, Duomo di Ravello

Post-ceremony drinks, Bar Klingsor, 39-089-857407

Reception location, catering, and cake, Villa Cimbrone

Event planning, SposiamoVi

Flowers, Saipua

Photography, Heather Waraksa

Videography, Marco Caputo Films

Stationery, Written Word Calligraphy and Design (invitations); Laura Mazzetti of the Wedding Letters (day-of paper goods)

Music, Gruppo Arechi (ceremony strings); the Claudio Band (cocktail hour); DJ Zev (reception)

Rentals, Wedding Solution

Bride's gown, Alon Livné from Mark Ingram Atelier

Bride's accessories, Jannie Baltzer headpiece; Emmy London shoes; both from Bride

Bride's hair and makeup, House of Lava

Bridesmaids' hair and makeup, Beyouty

Groom's tuxedo, Knot Standard

Lighting, Antares

Transportation, Maggiolino Wedding

Local floral assistance, Armando Malafronte

Custom sandals, La Bottega Caruso

Welcome gifts, Birra D'Amalfi (beer); Speak Italian: The Fine Art of the Gesture, by Bruno Munari

Bridesmaids' gifts, Hart Hagerty tassel earrings; Gifted Boutique clear monogrammed clutch purse; Piyama rompers

Groomsmen's gifts, Brooks Brothers bow tie and suspenders