A Christmas-Themed Wedding in Washington, D.C.
Celina and Rob
Most couples avoid politics on the first date, but not Celina Parker and Rob Engstrom. The two met in Florida, during a heated special congressional campaign—she was on the press team for one of the candidates; he, the political director of a national organization endorsing him. "I had been working like mad on this event," recalls Celina, who was living in Tallahassee. "I was that crazy press person with her hair on fire, holding a mountain of folders—and as I'm rounding the corner, I practically run right into a tall man in a suit." As Rob (the tall man in the suit and a seasoned political pro) recalls, "This race was being watched across the nation. I'm about to walk out in front of five television cameras. We almost ran smack into each other, and now I'm completely distracted because Celina is absolutely gorgeous and standing there in the back of the room."
Determined to keep in touch, Rob emailed Celina two days later, asking for a campaign yard sign—a pickup line he admits was not one for the record books. After a month of emails and texts, the two finally met for lunch when Rob was passing through Florida for work, and they bonded over bourbon and gingers, shared interests, and politics, of course. Two months later, Celina—who grew up in El Salvador and had gone to Florida for college—moved to the D.C. area and, in December, took Rob to meet her family. "When we first visited them over the holidays and everyone got along, I realized this was all falling into place." For Rob's part, he was as smitten with Celina's family as they were with him.
Some six months later they moved into a house in historic Old Town Alexandria—a Virginia neighborhood that the couple adore, especially at the holidays—and they were engaged six months after that.
The pair had their hearts set on a formal Catholic ceremony, which they had on December 2, 2016, officiated by Rob's friend Kieran Harrington, a monsignor for the Diocese of Brooklyn, at a church just blocks from their home. Afterward, guests were treated to carolers and hot cocoa. Then it was off to the Hay-Adams hotel in D.C., for a winter-wonderland setting that was both elegant and full of surprises, starting when a curtain was pulled back to reveal a cloud of seasonal greenery, candles, and bells hovering over the dance floor. The evening finished with a "carnival hour" (a Salvadoran wedding tradition), as partygoers donned masks and danced to a lively Latin playlist. "We wanted everything to genuinely reflect who we are and whom we love," says the groom. "It just felt right in every way."
The Stationery Suite
Slate gray and gold added sophistication to the white- and-green color palette. The invitation, by Cheree Berry Paper, was wrapped in a custom-dyed ribbon, and vintage stamps nodded to the season and the pair's political ties. The menu's shape echoed the oval crest on the program. Reception cards were tucked into gold envelopes. The suite was mailed in a verdant green envelope calligraphed by Laura Hooper.
Welcome to Town
Welcome boxes showcased local treats, plus a White House Christmas ornament.
Historic, Holiday Spirit
The newlyweds pose in front of their discreetly decorated home, just a stone's throw from the wedding chapel in Old Town Alexandria. "Our house is on the Historic Register—and it's also haunted, for real," says Rob.
All in the Family
Rob went to the same person who helped his brother-in-law pick out the ring for Rob's sister, Amanda, "so they already had a strong connection," says Celina. "The diamond watch was my "something borrowed" from that same sister, who was one of my bridesmaids." The vintage purse (her "something old") was handmade, a gift from the bride's grandfather to her mother on her fifteenth birthday.
Celina's bridesmaids, a mix of friends and family members, picked their own dresses in a range of emerald tones. "I wrote each of them a special note of thanks for enduring the chilly weather," the bride says.
The Bridal Bouquet
On the Cuff
Rob has a vast collection of presidential cufflinks; these are from 1982 and have Ronald Reagan's signature on the back. "We find the love story between Ron and Nancy so inspiring," he says.
A Fairytale Touch
Nieces and nephews carried paper banners that formed a verse from "Storybook Love," the theme song from The Princess Bride—Celina's favorite film.
Street carolers lent festive cheer—a bit of the holiday atmosphere the couple treasure in their neighborhood.
Outside historic St. Mary Catholic Church, guests tossed biodegradable faux snow from paper cones.
Custom to-go cups were a whimsical touch.
Guests could grab a breath of fresh air—and a gander of the spectacular view—from the rooftop terrace of the Hay-Adams, the hotel where the wedding reception was held. "That is a big reason why we chose it," says Rob.
In the Spirit
A help-yourself bourbon bar, featuring the couple's favorite spirit, was there for the sipping during the pre-dinner cocktail hour. Rob made sure to include Old Crow, a strong bottom-shelf bourbon that Rob remembers his dainty grandmother drinking back in the day.
Celina and Rob discovered a shared love of bourbon and ginger on their first lunch date, so Moscow Mules—a classic concoction of bourbon, ginger beer, and lime—felt like an appropriate (and warming) choice on their wedding day. Here, the drinks are served in the traditional copper mugs and garnished with seasonal-appropriate sugared cranberries and fresh bay leaves.
For their winter nuptials, the bride and groom wanted a nod to the coming holidays, without being overly Christmas-y. Here, the rich emerald green velvet sofa and gold ottomans created an inviting area for guests to relax with a drink—and echoed the overarching green-and-gold palette to sophisticated effect.
With Bells On
Place cards were vintage bells with calligraphed die-cut paper "ribbons"—a (surprise) homage to Celina's mother's vast collection. "Every time I see a bell, I think of my mom," she says. This Currier & Ives porcelain bell was for the bride and groom.
Ring the Bells
The vintage bells (sourced from Etsy and eBay) doubled as wedding favors.
The Lauryn Prattes Styling and Events staff, in shimmering gold dresses, helped guests retrieve their bells.
Merry and Bright
Cedar wreaths around every other place setting added an element of greenery to the reception tables; white candleholders, a frosty glow.
Dancing with Dad
Celina chose the Beach Boys' "God Only Knows" for her father/daughter dance. "He was my rock, so that song was the easiest choice I made."
Guests donned props for carnival hour. "People really started dancing after that!" says the bride.
Two Salvadoran specialties—pupusas (cheese-filled corn cakes) and palomas (tequila-based cocktails)—were passed, adding to the celebratory mood.
A Gilded Cake
The cake's tiers were covered in slate-gray fondant and gold leaf courtesy of Buttercream Bakeshop.
Flavors to Savor
Each slice revealed two cake flavors: spice cake and devil's food.
Ceremony location, St. Mary Catholic Church
Event design and coordination, Lauryn Prattes Styling and Events
Reception location and catering, The Hay-Adams
Flowers, Sweet Root Village
Photography, Abby Jiu
Cinematography, Socialart Cinema
Stationery, Cheree Berry Paper
Calligraphy, Laura Hooper Calligraphy
Cake, Buttercream Bakeshop
Hair and hair clip, Bridal Hair by Remona
Flower-girl dresses, David's Bridal
Groom's tuxedo, bow tie, shirt, and studs, Brooks Brothers
Groom's cufflinks, Just Cuff Links
Menswear and groom's shoes, The Black Tux
Ring bearer's tuxedo, Men's Wearhouse
Ring bearer's bow tie, Little Boy Swag
Cigars, Castañeda Cigars
Silk ribbons, Honey Silks & Co.
Wedding rings, Tiny Jewel Box