If ever there was an occasion to raise a glass to someone's happiness and good fortune, it's a wedding. Toasts are an opportunity for friends and family to express in words the enormous joy they feel as they watch the newlyweds embark on their life together. And they are a time for the couple to salute each other and to thank their parents, attendants, and guests for all their love and support.

Being called upon to say something witty, eloquent, touching, and profound before a room full of people can make even the most outgoing person tongue-tied. But when you really think about it, a good toast need only convey one story or message -- something simple and sincere. And there's no need to go on and on.The old adage applies: Keep it short and sweet.

Toasts are as integral a part of the reception as the cake-cutting and first dance, and the bride and groom should decide in advance when and how they will occur. With a little planning and preparation, this time-honored tradition can create some of the most cherished memories of the day.

Do You Know?
Long ago, sharing a drink was a way to show trust. The term toast originated from the piece of bread placed in a cup of wine to absorb the sediment that settled at the bottom. The cup would be passed around and the "toast" became the prize of whoever reached it first.