If love could be expressed in color, it would undoubtedly be some combination of pale pink and bright red. Together they represent a spectrum of romantic feelings -- from tender to passionate, bashful to brazen. It's no wonder valentines often come in these hues. The pair has a physical chemistry as well: Studies show that gazing at pink has a calming effect, while red causes the heart to race. In other words, the two work in exquisite harmony. Add a white or green accent if you choose. Either way, you've got a look that's neither too sweet nor too sassy. Like you and your groom -- a great match.

At this shower, bright sugar poppies are planted atop a cake iced in blush-colored buttercream by Sylvia Weinstock. The linen runner, napkins, and grosgrain ribbon play up the scheme. Stand by Frances Palmer Pottery.