Getting engaged and getting married are two of life's most exciting events, so naturally you want to tell the world when they happen to you. There are many methods for doing so -- from the traditional to the technological.

The Engagement
When it's time to announce your engagement, you'll want to start with those people closest to you -- parents, siblings, and grandparents. If this is a second marriage for either party and there are children from the first marriage, they, and most often the former spouse, should be the first to know.

The most intimate and immediate way to tell your family and closest friends is by telephone, but it may not be practical to call everyone else. If you have out-of-town friends with whom you often share the details of your lives via e-mail, then it's perfectly acceptable to announce your engagement to them this way. Be aware, though, that some people prefer to hear big news over the phone, so if there is even the slightest possibility that someone you know will be offended, put him or her on your "to-call" list.

The Party
Many couples announce their engagements at a party thrown for them by parents or close friends. Some keep the reason for the party a secret, and announce the news during a toast at the beginning of the evening. Others send out printed invitations with the reason for the celebration detailed on the cards. Be advised: A guest at your engagement party will probably expect an invitation to your wedding, so plan this first guest list wisely.