Soon after they started dating, Courtney, an executive assistant, gave Chris, a contractor, a framed photo of the two of them. "I'd written 'True Love Waits' on the back and told him not to look at it for five years," says the bride, who just knew they'd last even longer. Two years later, they were engaged. At the wedding, Chris, who'd respectfully never peeked at her note, surprised her with a first-dance song. The tune was Radiohead's "True Love Waits."