Gauri Nanda and Daniel Georgiev fused their Indian and Western backgrounds over a weekend-long destination wedding in the heart of California's Sonoma County (they call Michigan home). Guests flew in from all over the world to enjoy the various ceremonies and festivities in late August of 2009.
The weekend began with the "mehndi" ceremony. Traditionally, the ceremony is just for the female wedding guests. However, Gauri and Daniel wanted to combine its activities -- henna painting in particular -- with a "sangeet" party (a larger affair involving dancing, singing, and eating) to create a daylong celebration for all guests. Family members brought "dhoki" drums; everyone sang and danced to Indian folk songs.
In Indian tradition, there are no bridal showers or rehearsal dinners. Instead, there are many sacred ceremonies, such as the "chura" ceremony. During the chura, the bride's family adorns her with traditional red and white bracelets that have been dipped in milk (to cleanse them). The bracelets are then decorated further with gold ornaments, each placed on her wrists by different guests. Historically, the bride wears the jewelry for the next week -- Gauri wore hers until that night.
The first wedding day of the multipart wedding weekend took place at Viansa Winery, with 100 guests in attendance. The venue's beautiful setting was enhanced with vibrantly hued flowers. Orange, red, and magenta petals were scattered along its pathways.
Petals filled the fountain at the ceremony site, which was bordered with orange carnations. Susan Garden, of Garden Party, designed all of the weekend's floral elements.
Leis of fresh blooms from noveltylei.com adorned the mandap (the customary altar) on which the ceremony took place.
The many rituals were outlined in the program, which also informed guests that "the marriage ceremony is the thirteenth among the sixteen 'samskaras,' or rites of passage. It is a sacrament that unites the couple and sends them on their way to a new life together."
The wedding contained many other rituals, including the bride's favorite, "akhanda saubhagyawati," where seven married women are called up to give the bride advice.
Amber Indian Restaurant catered the seated dinner, which included five traditional side dishes, four curried main dishes, and a duo of desserts ("ras malai" and "gulab jamun").
Bollywood dancing followed.
Everyone gathered again on Saturday for a day of Western rituals and festivities. The day began in the landmarked Mission San Francisco de Solano to the sounds of two Spanish guitars.
Photographer Abdi Alminari from 3 Photographers snapped a few group portraits after the ceremony.
Gauri wore a Vera Wang gown, and Daniel wore a suit from Barneys New York.
The Western reception, held on the beautiful Miraval Estate overlooking Sonoma's vineyards, had a muted palette, compared to the previous day. White, black, and peach decor played up the surroundings.
The silhouettes were also rubber-stamped onto the favor boxes, which included a duo of desserts to honor the couple's heritages: "kalakand" (a sweet Indian treat) and "ovocny knedliky" (a Czechoslovakian fruit dumpling).
Alexis Baking Company made a devil's food cake accented with soft peach flowers and ivory rose petals.
Photography: Abdi Alminari, of 3 Photographers
Flowers: Garden Party
Locations: Runningwood (Mehndi ceremony), Viansa Winery (Indian wedding), Mission San Francisco de Solano (Western ceremony), Miraval Estate (Western reception)
Henna artists: Mehndi Designer
Decor: Five Star Productions
Transportation: Pure Luxury Transportation
Day-of planning (for Western wedding): Avant Planners
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